The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

The Best Select Services Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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7 Wedding Venues in Smithtown, NY

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The Village Club At Lake Success 

5.0

  • Up to 330 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000
  • Offer

The Village Club at Lake Success sits on the edge of the pristine Lake Success with breathtaking views of tranquil waters and lush foliage. We invite you to celebrate your wedding against a backdrop of Spanish-deco architecture and impeccably manicured property. From the outdoor patios overlooking the golf course to the terrace and floor-to-ceiling windows just yards away from the lake, the views are stunning no matter the season. Indulge in an exclusive country club atmosphere that is also conveniently located less than 20 miles from New York City and easily accessible to all points on Long Island.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“Thank you Barry and Amy! I cannot thank these two enough for making our wedding day the best day ever! They both went above and beyond to make our dream wedding come to life! We got married at the village club on July 12, 2024 and I could not be happier that we chose this venue! All our guests raved about the spectacular venue, amazing food and professionalism of the staff. Barry’s attention to detail, passion for what he does, and years of experience is the reason why having your wedding at the village club will be the best decision you will ever make. From the first day we booked the venue, Barry recommended incredible vendors and made the wedding process a breeze! Barry makes himself available 24/7 to answer questions, connect you with vendors and keep you calm! Even with an incredible venue, you need a capable staff to support your wedding day. Barry’s staff at the village club is amazing! Everyone is so friendly and diligent to making everything run smoothly the day of. The food is absolutely amazing! My guests came up to me all night raving about the food and saying it was the best wedding food they have ever had. After our tasting, we knew we made the right decision choosing the village club for our special day! The village club itself has had some new renovations which we were lucky enough to have for our wedding. The ballroom is completely updated and refinished, the building repainted, the room for cocktail hour has new carpet and refinished chairs to match, and the patio overlooking the golf course has a new permanent pergola structure that opens and closes for shade with fans to keep your guests cool! The renovations to the village club are incredible and give the venue a fresh new look! Barry and Amy really run such a smooth operation the day of the wedding. From the moment we arrived, Amy told us where to go, what to do and where we had to be. Barry and Amy provided us with drinks for the bridal suite and made sure everyone was taken care of! They both kept checking on us throughout the night to make sure we were eating, drinking and having the best night ever. If you are trying to decide where to get married, please go see Barry and Amy at the Village Club at Lake Success and book your wedding with them. I promise you it will be the best night of your life and you will get the chance to work with great people who want to do everything in their power to make your day the most special day ever! Barry and Amy are really the MVPs of the wedding! We love you both and can’t wait to follow along to see all the wonderful weddings you guys will have at the Village Club!”
Katie D., a year ago
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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 

5.0

Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
“I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.”
Aly, 2 months ago
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Windows on the Lake 

3.5

Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Realmente fue mi sueño hecho realidad.me sentí princesa en el cuento de hadas,todo estuvo bello espectacular,la atención desde que comienzas tus preparativos hasta el final ,Luis es un ser espectacular y La persona que estuvo al pendiente de mi el día de la boda.ella Es maravillosa Vickie gracias”
Ana V., 2 years ago
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The Port Jefferson Country Club 

5.0

Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the scenic North Shore of Long Island, Port Jefferson Country Club offers an exquisite setting for unforgettable weddings. Overlooking the shimmering Long Island Sound, this premier venue features a meticulously maintained 18-hole championship golf course that provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. The club’s elegant clubhouse boasts refined dining options, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and luxurious locker rooms—ensuring that every moment, from preparation to celebration, is steeped in comfort and sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Additional event staff required
“I just got married at this venue on 8/31/25. I was the second wedding after all the renovations made, and I had the absolute pleasure of working with Mirian and Meg. If i can rate them & their staff alone it would be 10 stars. They were so attentive, helpful, professional, and kind. They didn’t only treat me (the bride) or the groom this way, they treated everyone with the utmost respect and amazing service. Sofia was in my care, who was the sweetest person and did everything for me that day. Meg was my maître d and she was so attentive and fun to be around. She pulled strings to make sure i got the most insane pictures and i couldn’t be more grateful that i had someone as great as her attending to me and my new husband! Mirian was the head person in charge before the wedding and she made everything so easy! She dealt with my vendors and made everything possible. she made sure my vision came to life and i really appreciate everything she did for me and my fiance as she made it possible. We met with her two weeks before the wedding, she helped me organize everything and even gave me very cute last minute ideas!! Meg and Mirian were the best two people to deal with i recommend anyone getting married here to push for them for their wedding day too. You know you have amazing staff too when your whole wedding and wedding party know them by name and mention that they loved them. The food was TO DIE FOR!! at one point after pictures, meg and sofia made sure me and my husband sat down for a moment to eat, which was super helpful and thoughtful. The food was amazing, everyone complimented it. Everyone raved about how good the meat carving station, seafood and pasta stations were. Everyone raved about the entrees and dessert as well. I cannot wait to go back and visit this place. It was so special, the vibe, overlooking the water. it made my fairytale wedding come to life. It wasn’t only the venue, it was definitely the people who worked there. Mirian and Meg, thank you so very much for making my wedding so memorable for me, my husband, and our whole family.”
Alyssa C., 5 months ago
Hamlet Golf And Country Club 

5.0

Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
“Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.”
Melanie Z., a year ago
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Arlo Kitchen & Bar 
Northport, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,500

Located on the Gold Coast of Long Island, nestled into a hilltop that sits on 2 acres of lush forest-like property. Designed by The Standard Hospitality Group, Arlo offers a Multi-level dining experience with an open kitchen, two bars, and a magnificent outdoor patio. Every detail was carefully curated with endless wood detail, luxurious banquets, and custom finishings.

Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking

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About wedding venues in Smithtown, NY

Why Is Smithtown a Perfect Choice for Your Wedding?

Smithtown sits beautifully along Long Island's North Shore, offering both luxury and more accessible wedding venue options for couples. You'll find everything from sprawling lawns to waterfront vistas and historic locations that create memorable backdrops for your special day. Stonebridge Country Club stands out with handicap-accessible spaces both indoors and outdoors, all set on meticulously manicured grounds you'll fall in love with. Just a short drive away in Stony Brook, The Estate at Three Village Inn provides a scenic and elegant environment perfect for couples needing accessibility features. If you're looking for upscale settings with accessible event areas, Essex Club in Brentwood offers stunning spaces across its 50-acre golf course.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Smithtown?

Smithtown's venue selection caters to various wedding styles and preferences. The elegant ballrooms at Stonebridge Country Club feature Grand Ballroom spaces and charming outdoor gazebos for your ceremony or cocktail hour. If you're planning a larger celebration, Insignia offers beautiful mansion-styled settings with family-style rooms that can accommodate your extended guest list. You'll appreciate the historic charm at Three Village Inn while venues like Watermill Caterers provide more intimate atmospheres where you can expect attentive service throughout your celebration.

How Much Do Smithtown Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding costs in Smithtown scale with your guest count, starting at about $32,316 for 50 guests and reaching $132,709 for 300 guests. Most couples planning for 150 guests spend around $76,011 for their complete celebration.

Guest CountAverage Total Budget
50 guests$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests$132,709
The average venue in Smithtown runs about $16,708 which makes up roughly 22% of your total budget for a 150-person wedding. This is noticeably higher than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 that typically represents 25% of wedding costs. You'll want to factor this premium into your planning process early on.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in Smithtown?

Insignia delivers some of the area's most impressive culinary offerings. You'll enjoy high-quality sushi, perfectly prepared steak, lobster and rack of lamb in an elegant mansion setting with both family-style rooms and outdoor options. Their fully staffed bars and dedicated event planners help accommodate large gatherings while maintaining that personalized touch you're looking for. Watermill Caterers at 711 Smithtown Bypass creates an intimate atmosphere that guests consistently rave about. Their cocktail hour selections and dinner service receive particularly high praise, and you'll benefit from experienced coordinators who ensure your celebration runs smoothly from start to finish.

Which Smithtown Venues Offer Remote Participation Options?

Stonebridge Country Club features an open-plan design with abundant natural light that supports high-quality video setups to engage your virtual guests. You can create truly immersive remote experiences by choosing venues with spacious layouts and strong internet connectivity. Look for places that welcome technical equipment and offer interactive platforms that transform passive watching into genuine engagement for those who can't attend in person.

When Should You Book Your Smithtown Wedding Venue?

Most couples secure their Smithtown wedding venues about 14 months (400 days) before their wedding date. August sees the highest number of venue inquiries, suggesting strong demand for fall and winter celebrations in this area. You'll want to start your venue search early if you're considering these popular seasons.

Which Venues in Smithtown Are Fully Accessible?

Accessibility matters for many couples planning their celebrations. Stonebridge Country Club offers handicap accessible spaces throughout their indoor and outdoor areas. The Estate at Three Village Inn provides accessible facilities too, though you should confirm specific details directly with them for your particular needs. Essex Club features accessible outdoor and indoor spaces that accommodate guests with mobility requirements while maintaining the elegant atmosphere you're looking for.

How Can You Maximize Value at Smithtown Wedding Venues?

You can stretch your wedding budget further by considering off-season dates from November through April when venues often offer discounts on their minimum spending requirements. Friday weddings typically save you about 10-20% compared to Saturday events. At some venues, daytime ceremonies actually include enhanced food options for the same per-person rate as evening events, giving you more culinary value for your investment.

Why Is Smithtown a Perfect Choice for Your Wedding?

Smithtown sits beautifully along Long Island's North Shore, offering both luxury and more accessible wedding venue options for couples. You'll find everything from sprawling lawns to waterfront vistas and historic locations that create memorable backdrops for your special day. Stonebridge Country Club stands out with handicap-accessible spaces both indoors and outdoors, all set on meticulously manicured grounds you'll fall in love with. Just a short drive away in Stony Brook, The Estate at Three Village Inn provides a scenic and elegant environment perfect for couples needing accessibility features. If you're looking for upscale settings with accessible event areas, Essex Club in Brentwood offers stunning spaces across its 50-acre golf course.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Smithtown?

Smithtown's venue selection caters to various wedding styles and preferences. The elegant ballrooms at Stonebridge Country Club feature Grand Ballroom spaces and charming outdoor gazebos for your ceremony or cocktail hour. If you're planning a larger celebration, Insignia offers beautiful mansion-styled settings with family-style rooms that can accommodate your extended guest list. You'll appreciate the historic charm at Three Village Inn while venues like Watermill Caterers provide more intimate atmospheres where you can expect attentive service throughout your celebration.

How Much Do Smithtown Wedding Venues Cost?

Wedding costs in Smithtown scale with your guest count, starting at about $32,316 for 50 guests and reaching $132,709 for 300 guests. Most couples planning for 150 guests spend around $76,011 for their complete celebration.

Guest CountAverage Total Budget
50 guests$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests$132,709
The average venue in Smithtown runs about $16,708 which makes up roughly 22% of your total budget for a 150-person wedding. This is noticeably higher than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 that typically represents 25% of wedding costs. You'll want to factor this premium into your planning process early on.

Where Can You Find Exceptional Culinary Experiences in Smithtown?

Insignia delivers some of the area's most impressive culinary offerings. You'll enjoy high-quality sushi, perfectly prepared steak, lobster and rack of lamb in an elegant mansion setting with both family-style rooms and outdoor options. Their fully staffed bars and dedicated event planners help accommodate large gatherings while maintaining that personalized touch you're looking for. Watermill Caterers at 711 Smithtown Bypass creates an intimate atmosphere that guests consistently rave about. Their cocktail hour selections and dinner service receive particularly high praise, and you'll benefit from experienced coordinators who ensure your celebration runs smoothly from start to finish.

Which Smithtown Venues Offer Remote Participation Options?

Stonebridge Country Club features an open-plan design with abundant natural light that supports high-quality video setups to engage your virtual guests. You can create truly immersive remote experiences by choosing venues with spacious layouts and strong internet connectivity. Look for places that welcome technical equipment and offer interactive platforms that transform passive watching into genuine engagement for those who can't attend in person.

When Should You Book Your Smithtown Wedding Venue?

Most couples secure their Smithtown wedding venues about 14 months (400 days) before their wedding date. August sees the highest number of venue inquiries, suggesting strong demand for fall and winter celebrations in this area. You'll want to start your venue search early if you're considering these popular seasons.

Which Venues in Smithtown Are Fully Accessible?

Accessibility matters for many couples planning their celebrations. Stonebridge Country Club offers handicap accessible spaces throughout their indoor and outdoor areas. The Estate at Three Village Inn provides accessible facilities too, though you should confirm specific details directly with them for your particular needs. Essex Club features accessible outdoor and indoor spaces that accommodate guests with mobility requirements while maintaining the elegant atmosphere you're looking for.

How Can You Maximize Value at Smithtown Wedding Venues?

You can stretch your wedding budget further by considering off-season dates from November through April when venues often offer discounts on their minimum spending requirements. Friday weddings typically save you about 10-20% compared to Saturday events. At some venues, daytime ceremonies actually include enhanced food options for the same per-person rate as evening events, giving you more culinary value for your investment.

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