The Best All-Inclusive Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

The Best All-Inclusive Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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13 Wedding Venues in Oakdale, NY

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Swan Lake Caterers 

5.0

Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., a year ago
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View 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

At the mouth of the Connetquot River and overlooking Great South Bay, View is Long Island's ideal location for wedding and social events - an atmosphere that is at once elegant and casual. The light and airy main dining room boasts a crisp seaside vibe, with walls of windows, white leather chairs, and rich wood tones. The outdoor patio affords panoramic views of the bay alongside a 20-slip marina, perfect for cocktails and hors d'oeuvres or waterfront ceremonies.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
View was an absolute delight to work with for our wedding. Their communication style was easy and responsive, which made the planning process a breeze. The quality of their work and overall value was exceptional - the venue was beautiful, with an open, spacious floor plan that was perfect for hosting our party and entertaining our guests. The staff made us feel so valued and important, never hesitating to go above and beyond to ensure our special day was perfect. As the bride, I was thrilled to be taken care of so well by the entire team. This place is truly a hidden gem - if you're looking for an oceanfront venue with a non-traditional, whole-style approach but with top-notch service, View is the perfect choice.
Angela B., 4 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 

5.0

Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., a year ago
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Mansion at Timber Point 

5.0

Great River, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the bank of the Great South Bay with panoramic views of Fire Island, the Mansion at Timber Point is a beautiful and inviting setting for the wedding ceremony of your dreams. The bride’s big day will commence in the lovely bridal suite, where the bridal party is welcome to prepare for the big moment. A beautiful white wedding gazebo is perched at the edge of the stone patio overlooking the rolling greens of the golf course, which give way to a magnificent bay view, for a romantic exchange of vows. Inside of this historic mansion you’ll find classic country décor with modern lighting and sound systems, ensuring a full night of dancing. Every detail will fall perfectly into place with the help of the experienced staff while the bride and groom enjoy their fairytale evening.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I got married on 10/24/25 and I cannot say enough good things about the mansion at timber point. Every single staff member that I interacted with was incredible and helpful from Lauren, who helped us from day one until the very end, to April and Emma who made my day more perfect than I could've ever imagined. they truly care that your day is as perfect as they would want for themselves on their own day. The venue is STUNNING, the bridal suite is huge and gorgeous, the food was TO DIE FOR. I don't have a single regret or wish for something to have gone differently because our day was beyond my wildest dreams. THANK YOU to the whole staff!!
Jennie E., 4 months ago
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The Mansion at West Sayville 

5.0

West Sayville, NY
  • Up to 205 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Located in West Sayville, NY, Mansion at West Sayville is a historic waterfront venue that hosts weddings and other milestone events. The management of this exquisite facility invites you to hold your special celebration in this setting with sweeping views of the Great South Bay. You and your loved ones can anticipate festivities with a private club ambience - a truly remarkable backdrop for your important day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
The Mansion at West Sayville is a gorgeous venue inside and out, and we’re so happy we chose it for our wedding. We loved the vibe from our first visit. It doesn't feel like a wedding factory, but being a Lessing's Venue you know they know what they are doing. Bob was down to earth, practical, and never tried to upsell us or pressure us into adding anything we didn’t need. Anytime I emailed Bob with a question, he responded within minutes and was always very on top of things. On the day of, everything about the wedding itself went so smoothly. Ann Marie the maitre d and Camille the bridal attendant were sweet, attentive, and so good at what they do. They set up our decor so beautifully and packed it away in an organized way at the end of the wedding. Ann Marie kept everything running smoothly, and Camille made sure we always had whatever we wanted, from food and bar drinks to our own pitcher of water when she noticed we were “the most hydrated couple she’d ever worked with” (lol). The bartender and all of our waitstaff were so attentive and wonderful too. The food was delicious and we got so many compliments about it, and about our venue in general. Our wedding day was truly unforgettable and The Mansion at West Sayville played a huge role in that!
Emily L., 6 months ago
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Open house

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our wedding at The Essex Club and it was truly flawless from start to finish. The venue itself is beautiful, but what really made the experience exceptional was the level of care that went into every single detail. From the very beginning, Jessica in sales was incredible. She was organized, responsive, and genuinely invested in making sure our day turned out exactly the way we envisioned it. No matter how many questions we had or how many little tweaks we wanted to make, she always handled everything with patience, kindness, and complete professionalism. She made the entire planning process feel so easy. The day-of staff was just as amazing our bridal attendant Jalissa and the maître D Rob were both attentive and on top of everything without ever being intrusive. The rest of the staff ran everything so smoothly and make sure every detail was perfect. Our guests are still talking about how delicious the food was, we went to all the show cases that we could and picked off experience, from cocktail hour all the way through dessert. Every dish was fresh, beautifully presented, and full of flavor. We couldn’t have asked for a better venue or a better team.
Victoria V., 3 months ago
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Drift82 

5.0

Patchogue, NY
  • Up to 175 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

Drift 82 is a waterfront wedding venue located on the Patchogue River, offering sweeping views of the Great South Bay. With flexible indoor and outdoor spaces, coastal charm, and a relaxed yet refined atmosphere, Drift 82 provides a stunning setting for ceremonies and receptions designed to feel personal, effortless, and unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No free parking
Choosing Drift 82 for our wedding was one of the best decisions we made!! The waterfront setting created a relaxed, elevated atmosphere that felt both special and intimate. The space flowed beautifully from one moment to the next, allowing our guests to truly enjoy the day without feeling rushed or crowded. The staff was professional, calm, and attentive, which gave us total peace of mind. Everything felt thoughtfully handled, letting us stay present and enjoy every moment. Drift 82 delivered an experience that felt effortless and genuinely memorable!
Erica, 2 months ago
James Betz 

5.0

Ocean Beach, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

Established in 1936. Current owners since 1995. Waterfront. Sunsets. Outdoor deck. Inside dance floor. Island Bar with top shelf liquor. All in one venue, catering, setting! Maguires owners Jim Betz, general manager and Drew Becker, Chef, will make your wedding day a memorable experience. Located in Ocean Beach, Fire Island you have a destination wedding right in your New York back yard. Have your guests travel across the Great South Bay on a beautiful ferry and take in the town of Ocean Beach with spectacular beach on the Atlantic Ocean and interesting clothing stores, ice cream shops, markets and gift shops. Let us take the guesswork out of your wedding day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
While planning an off-season wedding on Fire Island is daunting, Jim, Drew and the whole Maguire's crew made it easy! Quick responses, and really worked with us to deliver exactly what we wanted for our big day - even with some ridiculous requests. The food was incredible, setup was better, and the vibe was one that our friends and family STILL talk about to this day....6 years later! I actually can't write enough good things about this venue. It was the best day of our life, pulled off effortlessly. My husband and I are actually already planning to do a 10-year anniversary party there - at our guests' requests! We love Maguire's, and the view is not so bad either ;).
Alexandra & C., 6 years ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 

5.0

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
Stonebridge is an amazing place to have your wedding! From the beautiful grounds and spaces to the great people, we could not have been happier to have booked Stonebridge. Gregg was amazing throughout the planning process, he was very helpful and always answered any questions we had almost immediately! On the day of the wedding, Terrence went above and beyond to make sure the evening ran as smooth as possible, and he truly succeeded! Alex, our bridal attendant was also awesome and was by our sides when we needed her! The food was amazing, we are still hearing from our guests how good the food was compared to any other wedding they have been to. Our guests kept saying it was the best wedding they have ever been to! That speaks volumes about Stonebridge and the staff who go above and beyond to make sure your special day is the best day ever. Don’t hesitate to book Stonebridge, you will not regret it!
Marisa C., a year ago
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Watermill Caterers 

4.4

Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., a year ago
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Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking

About wedding venues in Oakdale, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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