The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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3 Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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Atkinson Farms 

5.0

  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500
  • Offer

A rustic wedding venue in Danville, Virginia, Atkinson Farms is the perfect scenic location for creating lasting memories. Tucked away in the countryside, the venue's entrance is flanked by beautiful gates and well-manicured fields. Atkinson Farms is the premier place for hosting your affair!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Dressing room available
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Dance floor not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
When I called Atkinson’s Farm to plan a wedding in just seven weeks because my daughter’s fiancé was being deployed to Japan, I was overwhelmed and unsure if it could even be done. Eddie didn’t laugh or hesitate—he simply said, “Let’s make this happen.” From that moment on, he delivered. His guidance, checklists, and constant communication made an incredibly stressful situation feel possible and supported. Eddie’s team—Tara, Dougie, and Wendy—were just as amazing. Tara was more than a coordinator; she was compassionate, calming, and fully invested in making sure our family felt cared for. We truly could not have done this without her. Dougie worked behind the scenes like magic, efficiently setting up and tearing down with ease, and Wendy handled the bar flawlessly—even with our lively crowd. The property is beautiful, and having the wedding party stay on‑site the night before meant more than words can express. The lodge and cabin are stunning, the food was absolutely incredible (we received so many heartfelt compliments), and even with an impending ice and snowstorm, my daughter and son‑in‑law had the wedding of their dreams. If you’re looking for a venue that shows up for you—not just in perfect conditions, but when life is happening fast and emotions are high—Atkinson Farms is it. We will always be grateful. Highly recommend.
Cassie V., 18 days ago
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The Oaks at Salem 

5.0

Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., 2 years ago
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Various Scenic & Iconic Venues at Meredith College 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 2500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,125

A premier North Carolina event destination where timeless moments come to life. Discover historic elegance, versatile venues, and impeccable service on our beautiful Raleigh campus. Parking is ample and available all around campus, wherever you need to park your trucks and crew. Whether you are planning an intimate anniversary, a grand wedding, or a pivotal corporate summit, our venues provide a versatile and inspiring setting. Gothic buildings, vast natural foliage, modern atriums, old-school classrooms, different atmospheres that fit your filming & event planning needs -- all within walking distance. We specialize in bringing events of all types and sizes to life with elegance and precision. Each space provides a unique and memorable backdrop, ready to be transformed for your landmark event. Please get in touch to learn more about our full range of venues and how we can bring your ideas to reality. We offer various add-on services as well.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Does not allow pets

About wedding venues in Cary, NC

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count: - 50 guests: $18,931 - 100 guests: $31,411 - 150 guests: $43,146 - 200 guests: $53,638 - 250 guests: $64,131 - 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count: - 50 guests: $18,931 - 100 guests: $31,411 - 150 guests: $43,146 - 200 guests: $53,638 - 250 guests: $64,131 - 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

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